How To Stop Being Stubborn
You are stubborn when you are unreasonably obstinate or perversely unyielding (turned away from what is right or good and characterized by lack of flexibility).
A stubborn person is determined to do what he or she wants and refuses to do anything else.
Therefore, stubbornness is a negative, idiotic, and dangerous attitude. However, it characterizes most people’s behavior, even when they seem to be open-minded.
Most people don’t want to change their beliefs even when they are confronted with serious evidence that they are wrong, and they don’t want to stop doing what they want even when they understand that it is bad for them.
There are many reasons why they have this attitude:
* They don’t observe their reality with objectivity.
* They don’t respect the rules of logical thinking.
* They believe that they have to be selfish.
* They believe that they are intelligent and they know what is better for them.
* They don’t want to admit that they made a mistake.
* They believe that they have to do what everyone else does.
* They had serious traumatic experiences and they are afraid to trust someone else.
* They like to be evil and this is why they don’t want to cooperate in anything. Evilness gives them an absurd pleasure.
You must understand how to avoid imitating their example thanks to the information contained in your dreams.
The fact that the unconscious mind discovered by Carl Jung is in fact God’s mind means that you can trust the dream messages. You must trust God’s wisdom, and not your opinion.
You have the tendency to be proud of your intelligence and many other idiotic tendencies because the biggest part of your brain remains in a primitive condition. However, now you have to be humble and recognize that you are not really intelligent, you are ignorant, and you are so absurd and evil that your opinion is dangerous for you.
This is hard. You are used to trust your opinion more than anyone else’s opinion. You believe that you must trust your conclusions. You are not able to agree with the idea to disregard your thoughts when you disagree with God’s wisdom, but God is your doctor.
You have to be humble and try to understand God’s wisdom instead of insisting on your opinion. Otherwise, you will always have the behavior of an idiotic and stubborn demon, what will be terrible for you and for the world, and you won’t be able to evolve without limits.
I already told you that I trusted God’s wisdom and this is why I could continue Carl Jung’s dangerous research in the unknown region of the human psyche. I was more than flexible.
You must be flexible and open-minded in order to evolve, what means that you have to combat your negative tendencies.
God helps you achieve this goal with the information He sends you in your dreams. The information you have about your mind and your behavior helps you understand your mistakes and correct your attitude.
Your dreams help you stop insisting on realizing your plans because your intentions are bad for you and you are in danger, or they help you stop making a mistake that you keep making with stubbornness because you don’t understand that it is a mistake. You believe that you are doing what is best for you.
Here is a short dream collection about this matter, dreamt by a woman who has relationship problems:
I always run in my dreams. Sometimes I\’m running away from bad people or run in competitions.I always try to run faster.Today I saw the same dream but I was running with my husband,he was quicker than me.There is also dreams when I see my dead brother, I hug him and kiss and cry.Usually he is sad in my dreams. i also saw baby in my hands, realized that it\’s my brother, like he reincarnated into a baby.
I always run in my dreams. Sometimes I\’m running away from bad people or run in competitions.I always try to run faster.
You represent your ego.
The fact that you are always running in your dreams means that you are running away from your anti-conscience, which is almost controlling your behavior.
Your anti-conscience is your absurd and evil side, which remains in a primitive condition. Your anti-conscience keeps trying to destroy your human conscience and control your behavior. It is your wild personality, which is chasing you.
The bad people represent negative parts of your personality that belong to your anti-conscience.
The competition indicates that many other parts of your personality are trying to avoid having the negative behavior imposed by your anti-conscience; not only your ego.
So, the fact that you are always running in your dreams indicates that you are always having difficulties on avoiding to be controlled by your anti-conscience. In other words, you are trying very hard to be a good person, but you have the tendency to accept the absurd suggestions of your anti-conscience.
In other words, you are trying not to explode of anger, not to be rude, etc., but finding it hard.
Your anti-conscience is a wild animal that has no human feelings. It is violent, immoral, and cruel; a true demon. It tries to destroy your human conscience and permanently control your behavior. So, it imposes negative reactions.
All dreams basically reflect the battle between your human conscience and your wild anti-conscience, which generates mental illnesses within your conscience.
Today I saw the same dream but I was running with my husband,he was quicker than me.
Your husband represents your perfect match. When you have a dream about the person you love you have objective information about him, while other people in dreams represent parts of your personality.
Since your husband is running with you, this means that he is also running away from his anti-conscience. In other words, he is in the same situation you are.
He is trying not to explode, not to be rude and hurt your feelings, and at the same time, trying to handle the situation with your parents, but this is hard for him.
He is running faster than you because he manages to avoid being controlled by his anti-conscience better than you.
He is in fact a false perfect match. He is not the ideal man for you.
There is also dreams when I see my dead brother, I hug him and kiss and cry.Usually he is sad in my dreams.
My brother died when I was abroad studying, he was only 21 years old, he drowned in water. We were very close, he was cheerful, and always seemed happy to me. very kind, never conflicted with another people.
Your brother represents a mature part of your personality. Since he was a cheerful person who had no enemies, he represents a diplomatic part of your personality.
The fact that he was sad in your dream means that this part of your personality is suffering.
You are not really happy, but you pretend to be happy like the diplomatic part of your personality.
Since your brother died, this means that you don’t need his example in order to be like him. You already are imitating his behavior.
The truth is that he represents a false part of your personality that pretends to be glad in order to please others.
i also saw baby in my hands, realized that it\’s my brother, like he reincarnated into a baby.
The baby in dreams represents a sin, a moral mistake. Therefore, it is a negative dream symbol. It indicates that you are ready to betray your husband and have an affair with another man.
Now, the fact that the baby is the reincarnation of your brother means that the moral mistake represented by the baby is related to the part of your personality that is cheerful like your brother, even though it is not really happy. You are repeating the moral mistake of this part of your personality.
You are not really happy with your marriage, independently of this situation with your parents. So, you are ready to accept adultery.
This is dangerous. You must be a loyal wife. However, you don’t love your husband and he doesn’t really love you. Your marriage was a mistake.
So, you are exposed to the danger of being attracted by a man who will be handsome and will make you feel something for him, since you don’t love your husband.
You won’t be able to be loyal to him if you will suddenly fall in love with another man. This is a danger that you are not taking into consideration.
In this situation you won’t be able to keep pretending that you are glad with your marriage.
So, you must make a serious decision in your life before being in a very difficult and dangerous situation.
I cannot show you the dreamer’s reply, her life biography and many other dreams, but I will show you two short dreams of the same dreamer and a detail of her life biography that confirms the reason why she is always trying to avoid having a negative attitude, and this is why she always is running in her dreams:
Today i saw a nice dream, I felt happy. We with my husband were launching a kite, it was very bright and red. We were running with it, My husband was keeping the rope of kite, and with another arm was holding me, we were very glad and happy.
I also remeber one dream, when I was drowning and my husband saved me. I believe that these dreams give hope that not everything is bad in our marriage, and we can make it work.
Today i saw a nice dream, I felt happy. We with my husband were launching a kite, it was very bright and red. We were running with it,
A kite is a fragile toy that depends on the wind. It represents a delusion, a false belief.
This means that you and your husband are playing like children with a toy that you may lose at any time.
The red color represents anger or excitement.
You are playing like children with your anger or your excitement because you are not really happy together. Your supposed happiness is not going to last long.
This part of the dream fits with the orange color that you decided to wear in the previous dream, which represents something temporary. Your social image reflected a temporary positive attitude that would change in the future.
My husband was keeping the rope of kite, and with another arm was holding me, we were very glad and happy.
The rope represents a dangerous solution in a dangerous situation.
His arm represents his actions.
So, your perfect match was holding a dangerous solution and also holding your ego with his actions. You seemed to be glad, but you were not really happy.
I also remeber one dream, when I was drowning and my husband saved me.
The fact that you were drowning means that you were suffocated by materialism or craziness.
Your perfect match helped your ego stop being suffocated by materialism, but this doesn’t mean that your relationship with him is based on a spiritual evolution or that you stopped being materialistic.
He simply helped you understand that you were exaggerating and you shouldn’t be so materialistic, but you have the impression that he saved you because he didn’t let you be only materialistic, in all situations.
Perhaps he helped you prevent a severe mental illness, but he is not the right man for you. Even if he helped you in many ways, you are not really happy with him because he is not the ideal person for you.
I believe that these dreams give hope that not everything is bad in our marriage, and we can make it work.
Unfortunately, these dreams are showing you that your marriage is based on illusions. This is a sad comprehension, but everything could be worse. At least you don’t have children and you are young.
If I could show you the dreamer’s life biography you would find many indications that she made a mistake when she decided to get married.
She is in a difficult situation, but everything will be worse if she will be stubborn and she will keep trying to avoid being controlled by her anti-conscience.
Most people don’t have the patience to look for the right person. They get married to the wrong person and this is why they have many traumatic experiences, and they end up having a divorce.
Everyone must find their perfect match through dream translation instead of making mistakes. When everyone will find their animus or anima nobody will get divorced and everyone will have a happy family.
Repeating The Common Mistakes Of The Human Race
Here is a dream dreamt by a mentally ill man about the fact that he repeats his ancestors’ mistakes:
I was in a room somewhere with people , I don’t know what we had to do. A guy was talking about things people do non-verbally, non verbal communication. We sat in that room and we wanted to settle ourselves there, I remember people had bags of clothes, but they couldn’t use the closet, so they would leave the clothes in their bags, I noticed they weren’t so happy with that. There was a kind of invisible, infrared point somewhere that was hot, it was in the air, you could only feel the warmth of the spot somewhere in the air of the room, you couldn’t see it. I was obsessed with it, I felt really dizzy, very abnormal. I opened the door to run away, an old man stopped me. I had little chance of making a good plan and escaping.
I was in a room somewhere with people , I don’t know what we had to do.
You represent your ego.
The people represent various parts of your personality.
This room represents a part of your psyche.
Your ego ignored why you were there.
A guy was talking about things people do non-verbally, non verbal communication.
The guy represents a mature part of your personality.
This part of your personality was trying to make you pay attention to what people really think and what is happening behind the scenes.
We sat in that room and we wanted to settle ourselves there, I remember people had bags of clothes,
The fact that you sat there means that your ego and the other parts of your personality were waiting for something.
You wanted to stay in that part of your psyche.
The bags in dreams represent the past. This means that these parts of your personality were carrying their past with them. In other words, they had with them their false impressions and their erroneous ideas, the conclusions made after traumatic experiences, and many things that were preventing them from understanding their reality.
The clothes in dreams represent your social image.
This means that these parts of your personality were carrying their past with them, and their old social images.
but they couldn’t use the closet, so they would leave the clothes in their bags, I noticed they weren’t so happy with that.
The closet represents is a place where you keep secrets and your social image.
The fact that these parts of your personality couldn’t use the closet means that they couldn’t secretly hide their social image from the world. They had to keep their social image in their past (in their bags).
This means that the social image they were showing to the world reflected how they used to be in the past. These parts of your personality had to show to the world that they were immature. They couldn’t use their social image without reflecting immaturity.
There was a kind of invisible, infrared point somewhere that was hot, it was in the air, you could only feel the warmth of the spot somewhere in the air of the room, you couldn’t see it. I was obsessed with it, I felt really dizzy, very abnormal.
The infrared light is a type of light that feels warm but cannot be seen. It represents a convincing hallucination.
Your ego was worried with this strange hallucination that seemed to be so real. You understood that you were facing craziness.
You were feeling dizzy because you lost the control of your mind and behavior.
I opened the door to run away, an old man stopped me. I had little chance of making a good plan and escaping.
The door represents a solution.
The old man represents the repetition of the common sins of the human race because of the craziness you have inherited into our anti-conscience.
Your ego found a solution and you tried to use it in order to escape from that place of your psyche where you were threatened by a strange hallucination, but a part of your personality that repeats the mistakes of the human race didn’t let you leave.
This dream is showing you that you have to pay attention to what happens behind the scenes, and you have to stop having the social image you had in the past. Otherwise, you will believe in false impressions, and you will have hallucinations.
If you will repeat the mistakes made by everyone in the world you will suffer, and your mental illness will become worse. You have to eliminate your anti-conscience now that you still can fight its absurdity because later you won’t be able to prevent a severe mental illness.
You tend to repeat the common mistakes and sins of the human race because you are violent, immoral, cruel, indifferent, and so on.
You must learn how to become a wise and sensitive human being by following the guidance you have in your dreams instead of having the negative behavior imposed by your wild conscience and by the cruel world.
This dreamer cannot stop repeating the common mistakes of the human race. This is why he is manipulated by his anti-conscience and he has a serious mental health problem.
He is stubborn because he insists on repeating the same mistakes repeated by everyone in our history.
He knows that he is making mistakes, but he cannot stop acting this way because he doesn’t truly believe that he must change. He doesn’t believe that he is doing everything wrong.
He needs many explanations and lessons.
His dreams are helping him understand his behavioral mistakes and accept to change his attitude.
Logical Thinking And Absurdity
I showed you that you don’t think logically most of the time and you don’t observe your reality with objectivity. You have to be open-minded and reasonable.
However, you have inherited many negative tendencies and you cannot simply decide to be open-minded. Your negative tendencies don’t let you have a positive attitude.
You tend to be stubborn and think based on subjective arguments.
When you are stubborn you are absurd because you follow the logic of your anti-conscience, which has a logical appearance but is illogical because it is disorganized, misleading, and cruel.
Your anti-conscience justifies the absurd thoughts it sends you based on selfish concepts. Therefore, when you follow these thoughts you disregard your objective reality as it really is. You live in an imaginary world.
Your anti-conscience is a primitive conscience that can understand only what is bad. It doesn’t understand the meaning of goodness and it doesn’t believe in happiness. By following its thoughts you will end up in terror and despair, but you believe that your evil self is smart. You don’t understand that it is idiotic and self-destructive.
You have to stop following the absurd thoughts sent by your satanic anti-conscience in order to be able to think logically. You cannot accept having a stubborn attitude.
Your anti-conscience doesn’t need to justify your stubbornness, since it makes you like to be evil. It makes you like to make everyone suffer because of your negative attitude, without a reason.
Whenever you are stubborn you are controlled by your evil nature. The demon you have inherited in your brain replaces your ego.
Instead of accepting the demon’s absurdity, you have to tame this monster and transform it into a human being.
When you examine your reality you believe that you are in an unfair situation.
Why should a poor human being like you have to tame a terrible demon?
I told you many times that it is not your fault if you have inherited a terrible demon in your brain, but the truth is that you are a demon who received a human conscience from God in order to be transformed into a human being.
This means that you originally were only a terrible demon, but God gave you the chance to become a human being by giving you a conscience that thinks based on human standards. So, you are not in an unfair situation. You have the obligation to use your conscience in order to transform your personality.
You have to recognize that you have to learn how to think logically and you have to respect your moral principles.
If you will be stubborn and refuse to evolve you will face the tragic consequences of this mistake in the future. So, it will be your fault if you will let the demon that lives in your brain destroy your conscience and you will never become really human.
You will have many mental health problems, and a tragic destiny. You won’t use God’s gift in order to evolve and become a saint.
You will never be able to abandon the vicious circle of hatred and revenge and live in a hell.
You must be afraid to be stubborn because stubbornness is a satanic attitude that destroys your conscience and your life.
When you are stubborn you have an illogical attitude that is justified by erroneous concepts and is imposed by your evil nature.
Analyzing An Absurd Tendency
You have the tendency to be stubborn because you are controlled by your evil self, which is your terrible anti-conscience.
The fact that you have a satanic anti-conscience means that you think like a demon. The fact that you have a human conscience means that sometimes you think like a human being.
Stubbornness is a satanic and idiotic attitude that cannot be logically justified and generates many bad consequences for the stubborn individual and for those who depend on his or her actions.
You must learn how to avoid being stubborn through dream analysis, even though you have the absurd tendency to be unreasonably obstinate.
God helps you understand the importance of flexibility thanks to the messages He sends you in your dreams.
You must avoid having the negative reactions imposed by your evil self. You must have human reactions based on goodness and compassion in order to become more intelligent and evolve.
You are used to think based on your anti-conscience’s rational level, but you must think based on a higher level of consciousness in order to find peace and happiness.
How To Create A Better Future
You are used to believe that when you are evil you are smart because this is the impression that your anti-conscience wants to give you in order to mislead you and destroy your conscience. You must learn how to perceive the idiocy of absurd and evil thoughts and negative reactions.
Whenever you are stubborn you have an idiotic attitude because you refuse to analyze your reality based on logical thinking. You think based on the rudimentary level of your primitive anti-conscience.
You must desire to learn more and analyze your reality through multiple points of view, without thinking based on old concepts and impressions.
Your dreams will help you stop being a victim of your evil self, and you will stop having negative reactions. You will follow the necessary psychological transformation that will help you really become open-minded.
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