Young Parents and Their Ignorance – Prevent Parenting Stress and Teen Depression

new parentsIf you have decided to have children, this means that you have a huge responsibility.

Be careful from the beginning, because too many psychological problems are provoked by parents being indifferent to their children’s needs.

One of the worst mistakes made by young parents is to abandon their children, without caring enough for them.

The truth is that a child demands a great deal from their parents, and at a certain point the young couple feels very tired with this obligation, because it is too heavy and constant.

You’ll have to give your life to each child; not only a little bit of you, but your entire life. This means that you will have to forget many of your plans, and care more about providing to your children everything they need.

This is very difficult for some people, while other people naturally dedicate their lives to their children, caring even more than the necessary for them. Everything depends on each one’s personality and life conditions.

If you are a young parent, recognize your ignorance and care about learning how to educate your children and how to help them avoid all the mistakes and problems of the new generation.

Teens that abuse their bodies usually have parents who are totally indifferent to their existence.

This may seem strange to you right now while your child is only a baby, you are still enchanted because of the new life that is part of you, etc., and you have no experience about parenting, but at a certain point, you might feel that your children are preventing you from living the way you would like to, and then your thoughts and reactions will be totally different.

Besides that, each child has their own personality, and you’ll have to respect their preferences, defects and qualities, without imposing your will.

You will have to pay attention to many things if you want to raise happy children, and form a happy family.

Here is a list of common mistakes made by many parents today, which you should avoid:

1. Leave their children alone at home while they are working, even though they work outside the home too many hours. Children alone at home may not only make a dangerous mess and burn down the entire house: they may do other things very dangerous for their mental health.

I can mention as an example, the very shocking case of a woman who was raped by her older brother when she was only 5 years old, which resulted in bipolar disorder, very near psychosis. This happened because the children stayed alone at home while their parents were working, without any supervision, and because their parents were so totally indifferent to what was happening with their children that they didn’t pay attention to many strange signs that should have made them wonder, and care about finding out the truth.

2. Total indifference to the child’s existence. If a child appears in a family when their parents were not expecting more children, he/she can be abandoned, without the necessary attention and care. If you have a third child, treat this child the same way you treated your first one, otherwise he or she will have serious psychological problems in the future, and live depressed.

3. Total indiscipline. Many parents are always so tired because they work too much, besides being always busy with other problems, that they don’t have the necessary energy to educate their children. This is why they never forbid anything to them, they give them whatever they desire only in order to get rid of their complaints and insistence, and they don’t teach them anything, because they don’t want to waste their time and energy with explanations.

It will be better if you work less but be nearer your children, than if you work too hard in order to give them all the necessary material conditions, without having any emotional contact with them, and without teaching them how to accept restrictions and obligations.

Be careful, and prepare your future wisely! Don’t make the classical mistakes of our time and civilization. Prevent parenting stress and teen depression, before it is too late.

Care about giving to your children the chance to find happiness in life, accepting to sacrifice your time and accepting to work hard for them, not only in order to give them all the material conditions they need, as well as giving them your personal guidance, because this is your moral obligation.

It may be too heavy sometimes, but you’ll be rewarded in the future, when you’ll proudly admire them, feeling that you really gave them the right education.

And at the same time, don’t abandon all your plans completely. As soon as your children grow up a little bit, do again the things that you like. Otherwise, parenting will be for you only a very big sacrifice, while it should also be a very big pleasure.

 

 

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